Starting a daily learning experiment

Today I begin my experiment.

The experiment is simple, I'm going to spend 10 -15 minutes 5 of 7 days a week writing something I learned today.

The rules:

Ok, so some days it actually might be some vague aspiration of learning :), but hopefully the spirit has been captured in the above points.

My overall hypothesis, note this might bias my learnings:

"When I feel good, those around me feel good."

Yup, it's a bit on the wooey 'magical thinking' side and, I've found that it actually works, like when you think magic and can be practical and give it your heart (don't just expect things to happen with no effort) magic really does happen.

So, with the intro out of the way, what did I learn today?

Today...I led a backlog grooming session that felt bad (to me anyway).

A bit of context, I'm the solo product manager in a small startup in the healthtech space and I love what I do.

I had stayed up until 2 am writing stories last minute, because this is a relatively new space for me and it's been a challenge to keep up since my priority has still been my family.

So I spend many evenings chilling with my wife and two teens and many late nights catching up to make sure:

Overall, this actually makes me feel awesome and fullfilled, and I've already seen that when I feel good ( and don't get triggered or defensive) the team feels good.

Pretty simple right?!

So, what felt off about the backlog grooming?

Fortunately, one of our amazing engineers called this out and asked 'how does this story help the financials?'

The old me (say 6 years ago) might have gotten defensive about this. The me of today realized immediately that he was absolutely right and I wrote this story because several folks on the team asked for it.

It was a good reminder to:

Ok, I think I've exceeded my 15 minute allowance here, but this is my first entry.

I hope you've enjoyed the read!

Cheers for now,

Mark

From my daily learning log (Daily Learning Blog Experiment Day 1). Written in ten to fifteen minutes, no AI.